What is something that should not be normal?

I hate how my mom treats me like I can’t be trusted and my little sister’s basically a damn princess. Everything I had to fight for growing up, she just gets handed. My mom “trusts” her yeah okay. I slipped up maybe twice my whole life and somehow that means I get babysat forever. Didn’t get my first cell phone till I was 14 and ONLY cause my bus was late. Meanwhile my sister could probably rob a bank and Mom would be like “oh she didn’t mean it.”

I can’t stand how women will say they want men who’ve been through therapy, but then try to send hints they like a guy instead of talking to them.

Therapy isn’t just yelling at someone for an hour. It’s learning skills to rewire neural pathways, and that means I may not catch your precise wording or hand placement or other quick subtle details.

If you respect therapy then employ direct communication too. Show it through it actions too, not just your words.

When you ou fucking put something on your website follow through with it god dammit don't tell me something entirely different when I show up for the fucking appointment

I’m so damn tired of saying “sorry” just to keep the peace. My boyfriend gets mad if I don’t text him back right away, even when I’m literally helping family. Then when I explain, he’ll hit me with “good thing I could talk to [insert some girl’s name] so I wasn’t bored.” Like… the fuck? I say sorry because I care, not because I owe you groveling every time I’m busy. Even my little brother’s starting to hate him.

holding someone responsible ain’t the same as blaming them but apparently that’s too deep for most ppl. and honestly these science “experts” just give me headaches. maybe i’d find it interesting if i didn’t want to throw my phone halfway through reading it. faith and therapy help but living it is the only thing that really puts it together. ppl act like they wanna fix the problem but nah, they just want someone to crucify.

another day another bullshit win. i swear if you’re the type of freak who enjoys this crap for “entertainment” i hope you choke on it. quick and ugly. don’t even care how mean that sounds. if someone came for me i’d tear a hole in the space time whatever and shove their own crap down their throat. being wrong, hurting people, twisting the truth—yea that stays stuck in my head. ppl love to spin shit and toss you a big “fuck u” but my brain still yells WAIT. facts first.

My favorite part is how these people always tell you to work harder without knowing how hard you’ve worked or what you’ve been through. They just assume you need to work harder and you’re wrong. It’ll never matter how hard you work. You just need to work harder. Even if it means working to death. That’s somehow uplifting and positivity.

I found this place on Reddit and any positivity is likely due to the lack of karma.

my therapist doesn't know about my cutting or attempted overdosing either. I did my best to be both an hero and a feminist ally. I'll pull it off successfully sooner than later probably. After all, I'm a people pleaser and hard worker like that.

Don't worry, you'll save the dirty injuns like me by sending them back to their creator like your ancestors before you. I'll even go willingly because after a lifetime of fighting, and winning fights, I've learned there's no winning.

Besides, the only things that keep me alive or got me anywhere are anger and spite. People tell you that anger will tear you down, but they're wrong. Anger can be incredibly motivating to do the right shit, and do it well. Spite too for that matter. Have enough people tell you that you'll never amount to shit, and you'll find a reason to make decent money or finally get a degree. Not that you'll want half as much to do with them as they may you when the dust settles because fuck them.

Not like you want men who actually work through shit anyway. You want dudes who end up needing divorce to learn they need to put down video games, instead of ones who learned the hard way as a fucking teenager when the world bitch slapped them. Then you sit there and wonder why your relationship is falling apart and no one gives a fuck.

Because you can't give people a shot. Because you're fucking pure and righteous and you end up with what you deserve: a deadbeat. Shits hilarious tho ngl