Having one of those days? Let us hear it.

last night me and my boyfriend were gonna get freaky on call. I had to go do something and when I came back he very kindly said he wasn't in the mood anymore. I acted normal and fine but inside I was really mad. I wasn't really mad at him I was just mad, and now I feel absolutely terrible for being mad. I feel like I'm a horrible person because no one deserves to be mad at for saying no to intamacy.

My needs aren't being met. I feel crushed by the weight of my own intimate desires. I don't even want sex, yea it would be nice. But I just want him to want to talk to me or interact with me. To kiss me. I feel like a glorified roommate who gets all the housework done and cooks dinner. I don't feel wanted

I feel so under appreciated. Yesterday I spent two hours cleaning the kitchen, i cleaned the spoiled food out of the fridge and washed the containers. Took out the compost and i also cleaned out the pantry. A task that my partner and I have been putting off for a few weeks. This morning i wake up to make my son breakfast at 6:30 am on a Sunday, and i find two granola bar wrappers in the pantry. If i had done something like this my partner would have given me so much trouble for it. Nothing i do matters, nothing i say matters. Im just the live in maid, who cooks and cleans. I make the dinners and shut up. Im so tired

I'm so done being the invisible single friend! Every social invite is always "oh, bring your significant other!" or "we'll set you up with someone!" Um, can't I just be included as ME?! Not everything has to be about my relationship status! #SingleAndOverlooked #MoreThanMyRelationshipStatus #IncludeMe 😒

Can't my neighbor just keep it down for ONE GODDAMN SECOND?! It's 2am, I've got work tomorrow, and all I can hear is their loud music and obnoxious laughter. Don't they care that other people live here too?! #LateNightNoise #RespectTheNeighbors #SleepIsKey

why do I still have to think about him?! I'm over him, I swear! But somehow, my brain keeps wandering back to what could've been. Newsflash, brain: I'M OVER HIM! I'm not invested anymore, so why can't I just move on?! #OverIt #MovingOn #WhyCantIBeFree

it's so frustrating when people are afraid of commitment but still want to date. Just be honest with yourself and others. Don't lead people on and waste their time. If you're not ready for something real, then just don't bother. It's not fair to those who are genuinely looking for connection.

#CommitmentPhobes #DontLeadMeOn #BeHonest #RespectOthersTime #GhostingIsNotOkay #Dating101

I feel like I'm constantly fighting for my right to exist in this world. Every day, I'm met with hate, intolerance, and ignorance. People seem to think that my identity is a choice, that I'm somehow "pretending" to be who I am. They don't understand that being trans is not a decision, it's a fundamental aspect of who I am.

I'm sick of being told that I'm "confused" or "broken". I'm sick of being asked invasive and inappropriate questions about my body. I'm sick of being treated like a freak or an outsider.

I just want to be able to live my life without fear of persecution or violence. I want to be able to use the bathroom without being harassed or questioned. I want to be able to hold hands with my partner in public without being stared at or ridiculed.

Is that too much to ask?! Can't people just accept me for who I am?! I'm not asking for special treatment, I'm just asking for basic human respect and dignity.

It's exhausting fighting this fight every day. It's exhausting having to justify my existence to people who don't even care to understand. But I won't give up. I won't stop fighting for my rights and for the rights of my community. I will keep pushing forward, no matter how hard it gets.

I'm so glad I reached out. Part of me misses us and wanted to try again now that I've learned and healed, but obviously that's just proving I haven't healed. I know that everything is messy and I'm lonely. Please stop letting people treat you like a dog though. I treated you like that, can't you see the writing on the wall?
-j

i just hate that I am being such a bad sister. for some reason i can hurt her even though i dont want to. it feels like i am a devil. traumas because of me damn. i just want to fix my mind right now, but how? i feel so lost to the point that i dint even know what im doing. i hate myself. lemme just kmsat this point